
Letting the Light In
Stories and soft practices for people reclaiming beauty despite burnout, grief, trauma or survival mode.
The Magic of Slow Decorating After Survival Mode
I didn’t know I was allowed to feel safe. I grew up in survival mode. Not metaphorically. Not “wow, childhood was tough” in the vague, TikTok way. I mean real survival. Like hunger. Like being passed between homes. Like hearing adults say they didn’t want me. Like being called a burden. Like having my safety depend on how silent I could be.
You Deserve to Feel Safe in Your Own Life
There’s a quiet grief that comes with realizing nobody is coming to rescue you. If you grew up in instability… if you were taught love was something you had to earn, if you learned to read every room before you even spoke… you know this grief well. You know what it means to sit in a beautiful place and still feel unsafe. You know how exhausting it is to carry the weight of your own belonging. I know it too.
Guided Meditation: Light, Shadow & Stillness
If there’s natural light in the space you’re in, notice it. The way it moves. The way it shifts, even in stillness. If your eyes are closed, picture the light behind your eyelids… the soft glow, the way it changes as you breathe. Now, notice the shadows. The spaces where light doesn’t reach. Not as something to avoid, but as something necessary. Light doesn’t exist without shadow, and shadow isn’t empty… it’s what gives depth, contrast, and shape. Breathe in the balance between the two…